I have a question that most people won't take seriously... But I am however, serious. So here goes.. Why is it such a thrill for Men to take a girls Virginity?
Haha most men are complicated and weird… I just don’t get them. But I guess as are women
Seriously, society has made men feel that to be a ‘proper man’ they should be the leader, the provider, they have to feel in power. I really think that them thinking they’ve took someone’s virginity comes from that, it makes them feel powerful, important and as though they have ‘ownership’ and gives them control.
There is really no reason for our existence, we’re born and we die, repeat. Yet so much pressure is put on us during our lives, we must have jobs, we must earn money and pay our bills, none of it has reason, nothing lasts, it’s all pointless.
I would say uncomfortable rather than ‘hurt’ it wasn’t a massive pain, just uncomfortable and awkward. Not coordinated at all! No ones first time is perfect, once your ready, don’t over think it, have a little giggle about it. It’s inevitable unless your planning on being nun